Women
Wife Dialogues With Husband’s Mistress
A wife is part and parcel of her husband as the Bible rightly says that both of them become one flesh.
Recently, a wife met a mistress, a suspected lover of her husband and this dialogue ensued between them.
Wife: I know we are all women but what makes you associate with married men?
Mistress: Well, I suppose they are the ones who are out to give joy to unmarried women without any strings attached.
Wife: You do really know these men are only having fun at your expense?
Mistress: Yes, we folks outside do know this fact, and mark you we gain a lot too.
Wife: What exactly do you gain from a man, who has given the best part of his life to another woman. A woman he had chosen to love, cherish and to live with all the days of his life. A beloved from his strings of women friends and marched down the aisle?
Mistress: We gain such material wealth like having expensive clothes, Jewelries etc.
Wife: Do you ever have any atom of love for these men because we inside the home usually believe a man’s first loyalty is to his wife and family, all other associations come secondary?
Mistress: I do agree with you my dear, some of these men are devoted and committed to their wives and families that some times they let you know from the beginning that their association with you must be most secretive because they would hate to love their wives.
Coming to your next point, that is, do we some time love the men? My answer is yes in capital.
Some of these men are most handsome, there are ones that are pot bellied and have nothing to offer. Some are very rich, which encourages you to stay on. Grabbing as much as you can.
Wife: What a waste of one’s time.
Mistress: Oh no, it is no waste of time as far as we are concerned we are pushed into such situations.
It is every woman’s desire to marry but if it did not turn out positive, life must go on.
Wife: Dating married men is not the ultimate. Majority of the married men snatch a little fun here and there after which they quickly drop the issue and go back to their wives and families.
Mistress: We are also having fun as it were more often than not some of us have 3 or more different married men-friends. Each shouldering one responsibility or the other. The one I love most is the one I spend for.
Wife: Why do you care for him and spend so much on him.
Mistress: I love him because he is the one that is difficult to get on with, the other ones are easy to get along with.
Wife: It is wise to turn a new leaf. Stop your involvement with married men.
Mistress: It is not easy. Only the married rich men that can help out since there is no single man that I can call my own. The married men are helping out to make life meaningful.
Wife: Of a truth life is war but it is wise to look up to God, the author and finisher of our faith. He can do for you what no man can do. Believe in him. Accept Him as your Lord and Saviour. Jesus can solve the problems and He will take away the reproach of unmarried life.
Keeping a lot of men in your life will ruin you completely. Change your life style for the better. AIDS is real, Hell fire is also real. Stop selling your body for money. It is the temple of the most High God. Keep it Holy. If you believe, the Lord will order the foot steps of your husband and your life will ever remain the same. Believe and our Lord Jesus will give you the desires of your heart.
It is done in Jesus Name, Amen.
Mistress: Thank you.
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Cooking And Its Importance To Women
Cooking is the process of preparing food by using heat. It involves a variety of techniques and methods, such as grilling, baking, boiling, frying, and steaming. Cooking also requires ingredients, utensils, and appliances to create delicious and nutritious meals. Cooking is for all irrespective of sex.
It may interest you to know that there are many benefits to cooking at home, including the ability to control the ingredients and portion sizes, save money, and customize dishes to suit individual tastes and dietary restrictions. Cooking also allows for creativity and experimentation in the kitchen, as well as the opportunity to share meals with family and friends.
When you cook, it enables you to know the right ingredients to use for a particular meal. Getting prepared food outside home will not give such opportunity and in fact it is cheaper.
For you to carry out cooking successfully, prepping ingredients ahead of time, is very important. Using the right tools and equipment, adjusting cooking times and temperatures as needed will make one a good cook and tasting and seasoning dishes to ensure they are well-balanced. A good cook should be able to taste and add adequate seasoning to ensure that dishes are consumed without stomach crams.
Cooking can be a fun and rewarding activity, whether you are a novice or experienced chef. It can also be a form of self-care and a way to explore different cuisines and flavors from around the world. Overall, cooking is an essential skill that can help you eat healthier, save money, and enjoy delicious meals at home.
Good chefs earn a living through cooking. Good ones who are opportuned to work in big hotels and smaller eateries make huge sums of money as well as earn free meal at work.
According to experts, cooking involves a wide range of techniques that can be mastered through practice and experience. Some common culinary techniques include sautéing, searing, braising, roasting, marinating, poaching, and blanching. Each technique contributes to the flavor, texture, and appearance of the final dish.
In addition, understanding how different ingredients work together to create a balanced flavor profile is key to successful cooking. This includes experimenting with sweet, sour, salty, bitter, and umami flavors and learning how to add these flavors in a dish to create depth and complexity. The right ingredients work together to give the right aroma and taste a good cook deserves.
Furthermore, exploring the diverse culinary traditions from around the world can open up a world of new flavors and cooking techniques. Trying out recipes from different cultures can help you broaden your culinary horizons and develop a deeper appreciation for global cuisine.
You may discover that different cultures believe in their own food and meals. Someone from the Eastern part of the country may not be comfortable with the kind of food or meal prepared and consumed in the northern part of the country.
Interestingly, gas cookers are in vogue because they cook faster especially in families with the presence of kids. Having the right tools and equipment in the kitchen can make a big difference in your cooking. From basic essentials like knives, cutting boards, pots and pans to specialized appliances like blenders, food processors, and slow cookers, having the right equipment can help you cook more efficiently and effectively.
In this 21st century, a lot of innovations have actually come into the practice of cooking. The use of wood and stove are gradually going down especially in the urban centres.
Planning your meals ahead of time can save you time, money, and stress in the kitchen. Meal planning involves selecting recipes, creating a shopping list, and preparing ingredients in advance to streamline the cooking process. This can help you eat healthier, reduce food waste, and make the most of your time in the kitchen.
A lot of families plan their meals so as to minimize waste, especially now because of high cost of living.
The safety of the food to be consumed in a home should be the concern of every good cook. Practicing proper food safety and hygiene is essential in cooking to prevent foodborne illnesses. This includes washing hands, utensils, and surfaces regularly, storing food at the correct temperatures, and avoiding cross-contamination between raw and cooked foods.
A cook should ensure that ingredients for a particular meal are properly washed. Food stuffs must be properly preserved if they are not to be used immediately. When it comes to refrigeration, experts should be contacted for proper advise on how long they should be kept.
Some persons due to health challenges are placed on special diets. Medically, some persons are advised to consume food with low salt intake as well as sugar. It is important that a good cook adheres to those instructions. If you or your loved ones have dietary restrictions or preferences, learning how to cook for special diets can be a valuable skill. This may involve accommodating allergies, intolerances, or lifestyle choices such as vegetarian, vegan, gluten-free, or low-carb diets.
Moreso, cooking at home allows you to have better control over the ingredients used in your meals, leading to healthier eating habits. By cooking from scratch, you can avoid processed and unhealthy ingredients, reduce the amount of added sugars and preservatives, and increase your intake of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins.
Meals prepared at home obviously may not taste as the one consumed from outside. The food got outside may contain excess spices more than meals prepared at home.
Cooking is deeply intertwined with culture and tradition, and exploring different cuisines can be a great way to learn about different countries and regions. Trying out recipes from various cultures can expand your culinary skills and palate, introducing you to new ingredients, flavors, and cooking techniques.
As peoples culture differs that is how the kind of food they consume also differ. When a chef finds himself or herself in a particular region, it is better to learn the kind of food that is being consumed.
When you talk about cooking, the meal prepared for an adult definitely differs from that of a baby. Excess pepper in meal may not be good for infants.
The use of mutter and pestle is gradually phasing out with the innovation of electrical appliances such as blenders. A good cook should be able to train herself on the usage of such kitchen equipment.
With the use of microwave oven has come to stay as hotels (eateries) and homes use them thereby saving the use of kerosine in stoves and gas.
Odoo-e Precious is a student of Pan African Institute of Management and Technology, Port Harcourt.
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