Women
Ministry Fights Feminisation Of HIV/AIDS
By design or sheer coincidence, the Rivers State Ministry of Women Affairs (MOWA) made it a date with women in government Monday, to parley on ways to alleviate the burden of the deadly epidemic called HIV/AIDs as it pertains to women in the state
By design yes, because it is one of the key-job responsibilities (KJR) of the ministry to intervene on issues of women and children concern especially where their health and general welfare are being jeopardized.
By coincidence, because such was facilitated as the world marks the International Women’s Week, a period when gender-sensitive issues are usually placed on the front burner.
For whichever reasons however, the meeting, a one-day advocacy organised in collaboration with State Agency for the Control of HIV/AIDs (SACA) under the World Bank Assisted Programme could best be described as timely.
In what could be adjudged an expository lecture by the Executive Director, Rivers State Agency for Control of HIV/AIDs, Dr C. M. Okeh everyone present had a privilege of a first hand information on HIV/AIDs as it concerns women in Rivers State.
Dr. C.M. Okeh in his lecture titled “Women and AIDs” revealed that the HIV epidemic is currently undergoing feminization, a situation where women top the list of HIV/AIDs victims because of their special vulnerability to it, so much that in Nigeria about 57 per cent of adults living with HIV are women an in the whole world 30% of those who are denied drugs to avoid Mother-to-Child transmission (PMTC) live in Nigeria.
Reasons advanced for the high vulnerability of women to the deadly epidemic ranges from thousands of young females becoming sexually active, special economic and cultural factors, to male dominance, ignorance and misconception, poverty. Early unset of sexual debut, increasing incidences of rape, low utilization of health facilities for Anti-natal care and delivery.
Therefore, the disproportionate level of vulnerability of women and men to HIV infection and the realization of the fact that the average girl-child has two times the chance of a boy to be infected has necessilated the special focus on women and the young ones to stop it from growing.
Moreover that HIV is now the second highest cause of death among the young ones beside violence, with over 2 million Nigerians orphaned due to it, coupled with the yearly outrageous number getting infected, the state ministry of Women Affairs, under the leadership of Mrs Joeba West, considers it imperative to task all female stake holders in governance , on the need for a concerted effort to fight against the ugly monster, an ill-wind that blows no one good through their offices of authority because they are a voice that could be listened to and the time to be heard is now.
Corroborating this charge, the facilitator of the Programme, Dr. C.M. Okeh, said, to achieve a meaningful progress in the fight against feminization of AIDs, all hands must be on deck as the government alone can not handle it. Women leaders at various levels viz (govt, corporate organization, civil society, religious and traditional) were advised to exploit the opportunity of their offices to make an impact.
Dr Okeh itemized instruments of the warfare as social education of women on HIV/AIDs, mobilization for uptake of ANC, hospital delivery and prevention of mother-to child-transmission, Campaign for prevention of prostitution, teenage pregnancy and abortion.
Promotion of virginity and delay sexual debut Economic empowerment, skills acquisition and access to micro-credit and grants, Fight against rape and Promotion of girl-child education
Earlier, the Director Women Affairs, Mrs Blessing Dienye has enumerated the reasons behind the creation of the women ministry to include engender change; first in the women’s orientation and then to others, stating that countries tagged “developing or underdeveloping” like ours are such where women are not part of the developmental trend.
In her dogged refusalto admit defeat, Mrs Dienye asserts “outside our environment, people with HIV/AIDs to the fulilment of their life, why is ours different?”
Blessing Dienye insists that a diagnosis of the HIV/AIDs virus should not mean a death certificate in advance.
She maintained that it is possible that a woman with HIV/AIDs could comfortably be pregnant and have a baby that is HIV/AIDs free.
Highlight of the meeting was the inauguration of 50 AIDS champions who were charged with the responsibility of salvaging the Rivers women in particular and every women in general from the scourge of HIV/AIDs.
Sylvia ThankGod-Amadi
Women
Nigeria Deserves Stylish, Sophisticated Designs-Igiebor Daddy Lucky
IVY-K Fashion by Igiebor Daddy Lucky, a Nigerian-born designer now based in the UK, has launched the latest menswear line, Dapper Man.
One of the collection’s strengths is its classic, clean aesthetic. Dapper Man delivers sharp, structured suits in a timeless black and white color scheme that exudes a sense of luxury and professionalism. The use of high-quality fabrics like wool and silk ensures that the suits not only look high-end but also feel luxurious to the wearer. The designer’s focus on detail is evident in the meticulous tailoring, with fitted blazers and crisp trousers forming the foundation of the collection.
Where IVY-K Fashion shines is in the subtle yet elegant touches. The inclusion of beads as embellishments on lapels and cuffs adds a unique flair, blending traditional craft with modern tailoring. This nod to African heritage gives the collection a distinct identity, offering something more personal and culturally significant than your standard menswear line.
However, despite the elegance of the Dapper Man collection, there is a lingering sense of missed opportunity. The black-and-white color palette, while classic, feels overly safe. In a fashion landscape where bold colors and daring patterns often make the strongest impact, the collection could benefit from incorporating more vibrant hues or experimenting with unconventional fabrics. Pushing the envelope with color or texture could elevate these designs from simply elegant to truly memorable.
In addition, while the tailoring of the blazers and trousers is immaculate, the collection lacks a sense of playfulness or modern edge that many contemporary menswear lines are embracing. The suits are undoubtedly stylish, but the collection as a whole leans heavily on tradition. Experimenting with asymmetrical cuts, bold patterns, or even layering could add an exciting dimension to Dapper Man. The challenge is to maintain the sleek sophistication of the collection while infusing it with a fresh, innovative spirit.
Another area that could use improvement is the overall cohesion of the collection. While the suits are well-crafted, there is a feeling of repetition across the pieces. More variation in design, such as different lapel styles, pocket configurations, or even bolder accessories, would give the collection greater diversity and visual interest.
In conclusion, Dapper Man by Igiebor Daddy Lucky showcases the designer’s strong grasp of classic tailoring and elegant design, but to truly capture the attention of a broader audience, IVY-K Fashion would benefit from more daring choices. By infusing the collection with bold colors, unexpected textures, and a more modern edge, Dapper Man could move from a well-crafted line to a trendsetting force in men’s fashion. With such a solid foundation, there’s no doubt that Igiebor Daddy Lucky has the potential to lead his brand toward greater heights
Women
Women Can Curb Indecent Dressing
The trend of indecent dressing all in the name of fashion is fast becoming a norm in our generation and society at large. Most married women embrace this fashion as competition with single ladies.
Different scholars have given an in depth insight about dressing as a tool of communication. Non-verbal communication has been asserted as the communication between people by the means of signs or symbols. It conveys what we wish to disseminate to the public as either intentionally or not.
According to Paul Ekman and Michael Argyle, communication is carried out through what has been classified as “Presentational Code”. He listed nine codes of non-verbal communication, as body contact, facial expression, gestures, postures, eye movement, proximity, orientation, head nods and appearance.
This, being stated, married and single ladies should understand that their mode of dressing is communicative be it directly or indirectly as such body parts we call “private” are now being made public because of the trends or wearing of transparent dresses and this in turn calls on the attention of men who are weak and prone to illicit thoughts thus, resulting to most rape cases in our society.
This indecent dressing by most ladies has denied many their future husbands. The truth is that a man is attracted to his kind; his desires in marriage. It is often asserted that decency and beauty are in the eyes of the beholder, yet, in trending times of this 21st century, dress code and fashion in nudity form is gaining popularity.
This has become complicated as most men tend to toggle between their emotions (lust) and sanity (rationality) in terms of marriage, thereby setting a wrong foundation upon which most marriages are consummated.
On the other hand, most married women have embraced the trend of indecent dressing nipping it on the state of it being the choice dressing, approved by their spouses, leaving society with the question of what “responsible” man would prefer that the secrecy of the benefit of his marital vow has become the centre of attraction and viewership by the general public.
Hence, communicating with their dressing gas given licence to every male gender who is interested or attracted to what they see to make unsolicited sexual passes at them, which might be considered embarrassing.
At this juncture, it is important to state that ladies should dress decently knowing that they are the epitome of nation-building, they are nation-builders, character moulders and pacesetters not just in the lives of their families but to the society at large.
In most occasions, there are no clear border lines between the married women and the single ladies because of the rate of scanty dressing which has close the gap of differences.
Women and girls should embrace this call awakening to decent mode of dressing. Dresses that are meant to be worn indoors should remain indoors.
It is worrisome to see ladies wear shorts that are supposed to be worn in the living room on the streets without shame. This is an awakening call to our ladies, married and singles that the opposite sex do not expose their private body parts for the public. Sometimes, the ladies go about in the streets without wearing brazziers as to showcase their nipples.
The society should be sanitised of the menace of indecent dressing that is lurking and taking over the entire nooks and crannies of the society and the nation at large.
Let it be known that he or she is addressed in the manner he or she is dressed. There may be no room for a second impression. To the single ladies, your dressing decently will not stop you from meeting your Mr Right rather, it will increase your stake and place you on the list of most valued women in the society.
Dressing speaks louder than words.
Kate Chisom Isiocha
Isiocha is an OND final year student of Temple Gate Polytechnic.