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Female Journalist Quits Spinsterhood
Former Miss Samuel Osinachi Victory, a one-time Assistant Secretary of the Nigeria Association of Women Journalists (NAWOJ), in Rivers State, has on December 16 , 2017 said ‘I do’ to her heartthrob, Mr Abrahan Sylvanus.
In a wedding which took place at the Assemblies of God Church, Rumuokwuta, Obio/Akpor Local Government Area, she unreservedly declared her lover and willingness to spend the rest of her life with her husband.
Speaking on the Topic: ‘Heaven A Prepared Place,’ the host pastor of the church, Reverend Vitalis Nwachukwu, who took his text from the Bible book of Ephensians 5: 21 – 33 and Revelation 21:1-2, stated that Jesus is coming soon to take His people to the prepared heaven. He added that if heaven is a prepared place, then the people who want to go there must be prepared.
Nwachukwu stressed that nothing on earth can stop Jesus from coming, hence there was need for all to live a holy and acceptable life pleasing to God.
He charged politicians spilling innocent blood for the sake money, power and positions, among others, to repent and give their lives to God before it becomes late.
He also enjoined married men and women to fully take charge of their responsibilities in order to raise Godly children that would be fit to enter into the prepared heaven.
The pastor x-rayed some qualities expected from a woman by the husband to include the home making ability, sense of humour, trust love and embrace both parents without segregation.
He added that good wives are peace makers in homes who ensure that balance love is shared between both parents, noting that they must ensure they accommodate their husband’s parents the same way they accommodate their own parents.
He explained that once a good wife is married into a home, she automatically marries the entire members of that family by being charitable to every member of the family.
Nwachukwu charged married men to guide against gossip and never to stoop so low to it, adding that gossips is a home breaker, once conceded to.
“Men never allow yourself to stoop so low to gossips from people about your wives’ inabilities, this will break your homes.”
The pastor stressed further that the picture of marriage was the picture of the kingdom of heaven. While praying that Mr and Mrs Abraham Sylvanus succeed in their marriage journey, he charged the entire church to pray for God to bless their union.
In an exclusive interview with newsmen shortly after their wedding the bride, Mrs Osinachi Sylvanus expressed heartfelt gratitude to God for honouring her with her heart throb and making December 16, 2017 a remarkable day in her life.
Her words, “I thank God for honouring me this way. I never knew that God loves me this much until God proved to me that all my prayers and secret tears have been rolled away as He provided me with such a loving, caring, husband.”
She advised all the single ladies out there to keep faith with God, who alone would never fail them, and to also be sincere in all their dealings, adding that faith saw her through all the challenges, insults, and some derogatory statements which single ladies are been confronted with in their daily lives’ endeavours.
Speaking also, the groom, Mr Abraham Sylvanus, thanked God for blessing his life with a lovely and caring wife of his taste and desire, noting that all the glory be given back to God Almighty who made this day a reality in their lives.
Mr Sylvanus enjoined bachelors out there to never give in to gossips about anyone they intend to marry, adding: “once you have seen a girl of your choice, go to God in prayer, confirm within yourself that she is the one you want, then go ahead to marry her without wasting much time or listening to gossips.”
Susan Serekara-Nwikhana
Women
Nigeria Deserves Stylish, Sophisticated Designs-Igiebor Daddy Lucky
IVY-K Fashion by Igiebor Daddy Lucky, a Nigerian-born designer now based in the UK, has launched the latest menswear line, Dapper Man.
One of the collection’s strengths is its classic, clean aesthetic. Dapper Man delivers sharp, structured suits in a timeless black and white color scheme that exudes a sense of luxury and professionalism. The use of high-quality fabrics like wool and silk ensures that the suits not only look high-end but also feel luxurious to the wearer. The designer’s focus on detail is evident in the meticulous tailoring, with fitted blazers and crisp trousers forming the foundation of the collection.
Where IVY-K Fashion shines is in the subtle yet elegant touches. The inclusion of beads as embellishments on lapels and cuffs adds a unique flair, blending traditional craft with modern tailoring. This nod to African heritage gives the collection a distinct identity, offering something more personal and culturally significant than your standard menswear line.
However, despite the elegance of the Dapper Man collection, there is a lingering sense of missed opportunity. The black-and-white color palette, while classic, feels overly safe. In a fashion landscape where bold colors and daring patterns often make the strongest impact, the collection could benefit from incorporating more vibrant hues or experimenting with unconventional fabrics. Pushing the envelope with color or texture could elevate these designs from simply elegant to truly memorable.
In addition, while the tailoring of the blazers and trousers is immaculate, the collection lacks a sense of playfulness or modern edge that many contemporary menswear lines are embracing. The suits are undoubtedly stylish, but the collection as a whole leans heavily on tradition. Experimenting with asymmetrical cuts, bold patterns, or even layering could add an exciting dimension to Dapper Man. The challenge is to maintain the sleek sophistication of the collection while infusing it with a fresh, innovative spirit.
Another area that could use improvement is the overall cohesion of the collection. While the suits are well-crafted, there is a feeling of repetition across the pieces. More variation in design, such as different lapel styles, pocket configurations, or even bolder accessories, would give the collection greater diversity and visual interest.
In conclusion, Dapper Man by Igiebor Daddy Lucky showcases the designer’s strong grasp of classic tailoring and elegant design, but to truly capture the attention of a broader audience, IVY-K Fashion would benefit from more daring choices. By infusing the collection with bold colors, unexpected textures, and a more modern edge, Dapper Man could move from a well-crafted line to a trendsetting force in men’s fashion. With such a solid foundation, there’s no doubt that Igiebor Daddy Lucky has the potential to lead his brand toward greater heights
Women
Women Can Curb Indecent Dressing
The trend of indecent dressing all in the name of fashion is fast becoming a norm in our generation and society at large. Most married women embrace this fashion as competition with single ladies.
Different scholars have given an in depth insight about dressing as a tool of communication. Non-verbal communication has been asserted as the communication between people by the means of signs or symbols. It conveys what we wish to disseminate to the public as either intentionally or not.
According to Paul Ekman and Michael Argyle, communication is carried out through what has been classified as “Presentational Code”. He listed nine codes of non-verbal communication, as body contact, facial expression, gestures, postures, eye movement, proximity, orientation, head nods and appearance.
This, being stated, married and single ladies should understand that their mode of dressing is communicative be it directly or indirectly as such body parts we call “private” are now being made public because of the trends or wearing of transparent dresses and this in turn calls on the attention of men who are weak and prone to illicit thoughts thus, resulting to most rape cases in our society.
This indecent dressing by most ladies has denied many their future husbands. The truth is that a man is attracted to his kind; his desires in marriage. It is often asserted that decency and beauty are in the eyes of the beholder, yet, in trending times of this 21st century, dress code and fashion in nudity form is gaining popularity.
This has become complicated as most men tend to toggle between their emotions (lust) and sanity (rationality) in terms of marriage, thereby setting a wrong foundation upon which most marriages are consummated.
On the other hand, most married women have embraced the trend of indecent dressing nipping it on the state of it being the choice dressing, approved by their spouses, leaving society with the question of what “responsible” man would prefer that the secrecy of the benefit of his marital vow has become the centre of attraction and viewership by the general public.
Hence, communicating with their dressing gas given licence to every male gender who is interested or attracted to what they see to make unsolicited sexual passes at them, which might be considered embarrassing.
At this juncture, it is important to state that ladies should dress decently knowing that they are the epitome of nation-building, they are nation-builders, character moulders and pacesetters not just in the lives of their families but to the society at large.
In most occasions, there are no clear border lines between the married women and the single ladies because of the rate of scanty dressing which has close the gap of differences.
Women and girls should embrace this call awakening to decent mode of dressing. Dresses that are meant to be worn indoors should remain indoors.
It is worrisome to see ladies wear shorts that are supposed to be worn in the living room on the streets without shame. This is an awakening call to our ladies, married and singles that the opposite sex do not expose their private body parts for the public. Sometimes, the ladies go about in the streets without wearing brazziers as to showcase their nipples.
The society should be sanitised of the menace of indecent dressing that is lurking and taking over the entire nooks and crannies of the society and the nation at large.
Let it be known that he or she is addressed in the manner he or she is dressed. There may be no room for a second impression. To the single ladies, your dressing decently will not stop you from meeting your Mr Right rather, it will increase your stake and place you on the list of most valued women in the society.
Dressing speaks louder than words.
Kate Chisom Isiocha
Isiocha is an OND final year student of Temple Gate Polytechnic.