Women
Paying Attention To Your Appearance
From the look of things men are known to be busy bees. They work hard to make ends meet in the family while women (wives) are known to be help meet. According to the Bible.
Men barely have enough time to pay attention to their out ward appearance regardless if they are fashion. Conscious or in the line of fashion
As a matter of fact after coming across so many men I see some of them very appalling. They commit mistakes in fashion.
In this write up I have decided to point out some of the blunders men commit in fashion and help to correct them.
It is wise to avoid these fashion mistakes and look your best at all times.
Wrong colours
It is very important to match the colours of your clothes to your skin tone. The focus must be on you and not the overwhelming colours of your shirt. For a dark skin, either a dark colours or bright colours that match the strength of your complexion.
If you are of a light skin, lighter colours will do like soft pastels or icy colours.
Short sleeve shirt with a tie
This is better worn if you work for a fast food joint like Tantaliser, Mr Biggs, etc where sleeves will probably get dirty while preparing hot dog, sandwiches –avoid wearing a short sleeve shirt with a tie.
They are generally perceived as lover class apparel.
Looking professional and confident stick to long sleeve shirts
Tucking T-shirts
Tucking in Polo shirts is acceptable but T-shirt should be kept casual. Assuming your T-shirt is too long then it is considered too big for you.
Facial hair keep well groomed
You face is the first thing noticed and the hair on your face should be decent maintaining importance. Look sharp. Keep a clearly sharp face or keep your beards trim.
No hair underneath your neck area.
Wrong belt colour
Always make sure that the colour of your belt matches you dress, shoes for professional occasions.
That is if your shoes are shiny, your belt must be shiny too. If you are wearing casual shoe match it with a thicker casual belt instead of a thin belt.
Don’t be a fashion victim
Really avoid wearing something just because it is popular and not because you actually like the looks and feels on you.
Always build a style of your own exercise patience not to join the fashion everyone seems to enjoy.
Excess Cologne
If only a woman smell your cologne when she is very close, great. She will have more reason to stay close.
If she can smell you from across the room, does she need to come any close? Depending on the strength of your cologne, use it with caution.
If it loses its scent later in the day simply reapply it to two sprays once on your neck and wrists.
Cell phone clipping to your belt
It is as attractive as using your blue tooth heads as a fashion accessory.
It is a cell phone not a gun keep it in your pocket
Cloths that don’t fit
Of a truth Baggy cloths make a person look sloppy and like they are wearing hand-me-down. If your body type makes it hard to find well fitting clothes off the rack makes your tailor your best friend.
Getting the right fit will transform any one look.
It is very necessary to pay serious attention to one’s outward appearance. In so doing many mistakes will not occur.
A lot of men have actually lived with mistakes of not dressing properly.
Fashion is a daily occurrence depending on how once handless it. If mistakes are avoided one will live to be happy in life.
It is right to emulate what is good and be at peace without any one wagging his tongue. Look good and be lively. Life moves on.
Julie Jumbo
Women
Nigeria Deserves Stylish, Sophisticated Designs-Igiebor Daddy Lucky
IVY-K Fashion by Igiebor Daddy Lucky, a Nigerian-born designer now based in the UK, has launched the latest menswear line, Dapper Man.
One of the collection’s strengths is its classic, clean aesthetic. Dapper Man delivers sharp, structured suits in a timeless black and white color scheme that exudes a sense of luxury and professionalism. The use of high-quality fabrics like wool and silk ensures that the suits not only look high-end but also feel luxurious to the wearer. The designer’s focus on detail is evident in the meticulous tailoring, with fitted blazers and crisp trousers forming the foundation of the collection.
Where IVY-K Fashion shines is in the subtle yet elegant touches. The inclusion of beads as embellishments on lapels and cuffs adds a unique flair, blending traditional craft with modern tailoring. This nod to African heritage gives the collection a distinct identity, offering something more personal and culturally significant than your standard menswear line.
However, despite the elegance of the Dapper Man collection, there is a lingering sense of missed opportunity. The black-and-white color palette, while classic, feels overly safe. In a fashion landscape where bold colors and daring patterns often make the strongest impact, the collection could benefit from incorporating more vibrant hues or experimenting with unconventional fabrics. Pushing the envelope with color or texture could elevate these designs from simply elegant to truly memorable.
In addition, while the tailoring of the blazers and trousers is immaculate, the collection lacks a sense of playfulness or modern edge that many contemporary menswear lines are embracing. The suits are undoubtedly stylish, but the collection as a whole leans heavily on tradition. Experimenting with asymmetrical cuts, bold patterns, or even layering could add an exciting dimension to Dapper Man. The challenge is to maintain the sleek sophistication of the collection while infusing it with a fresh, innovative spirit.
Another area that could use improvement is the overall cohesion of the collection. While the suits are well-crafted, there is a feeling of repetition across the pieces. More variation in design, such as different lapel styles, pocket configurations, or even bolder accessories, would give the collection greater diversity and visual interest.
In conclusion, Dapper Man by Igiebor Daddy Lucky showcases the designer’s strong grasp of classic tailoring and elegant design, but to truly capture the attention of a broader audience, IVY-K Fashion would benefit from more daring choices. By infusing the collection with bold colors, unexpected textures, and a more modern edge, Dapper Man could move from a well-crafted line to a trendsetting force in men’s fashion. With such a solid foundation, there’s no doubt that Igiebor Daddy Lucky has the potential to lead his brand toward greater heights
Women
Women Can Curb Indecent Dressing
The trend of indecent dressing all in the name of fashion is fast becoming a norm in our generation and society at large. Most married women embrace this fashion as competition with single ladies.
Different scholars have given an in depth insight about dressing as a tool of communication. Non-verbal communication has been asserted as the communication between people by the means of signs or symbols. It conveys what we wish to disseminate to the public as either intentionally or not.
According to Paul Ekman and Michael Argyle, communication is carried out through what has been classified as “Presentational Code”. He listed nine codes of non-verbal communication, as body contact, facial expression, gestures, postures, eye movement, proximity, orientation, head nods and appearance.
This, being stated, married and single ladies should understand that their mode of dressing is communicative be it directly or indirectly as such body parts we call “private” are now being made public because of the trends or wearing of transparent dresses and this in turn calls on the attention of men who are weak and prone to illicit thoughts thus, resulting to most rape cases in our society.
This indecent dressing by most ladies has denied many their future husbands. The truth is that a man is attracted to his kind; his desires in marriage. It is often asserted that decency and beauty are in the eyes of the beholder, yet, in trending times of this 21st century, dress code and fashion in nudity form is gaining popularity.
This has become complicated as most men tend to toggle between their emotions (lust) and sanity (rationality) in terms of marriage, thereby setting a wrong foundation upon which most marriages are consummated.
On the other hand, most married women have embraced the trend of indecent dressing nipping it on the state of it being the choice dressing, approved by their spouses, leaving society with the question of what “responsible” man would prefer that the secrecy of the benefit of his marital vow has become the centre of attraction and viewership by the general public.
Hence, communicating with their dressing gas given licence to every male gender who is interested or attracted to what they see to make unsolicited sexual passes at them, which might be considered embarrassing.
At this juncture, it is important to state that ladies should dress decently knowing that they are the epitome of nation-building, they are nation-builders, character moulders and pacesetters not just in the lives of their families but to the society at large.
In most occasions, there are no clear border lines between the married women and the single ladies because of the rate of scanty dressing which has close the gap of differences.
Women and girls should embrace this call awakening to decent mode of dressing. Dresses that are meant to be worn indoors should remain indoors.
It is worrisome to see ladies wear shorts that are supposed to be worn in the living room on the streets without shame. This is an awakening call to our ladies, married and singles that the opposite sex do not expose their private body parts for the public. Sometimes, the ladies go about in the streets without wearing brazziers as to showcase their nipples.
The society should be sanitised of the menace of indecent dressing that is lurking and taking over the entire nooks and crannies of the society and the nation at large.
Let it be known that he or she is addressed in the manner he or she is dressed. There may be no room for a second impression. To the single ladies, your dressing decently will not stop you from meeting your Mr Right rather, it will increase your stake and place you on the list of most valued women in the society.
Dressing speaks louder than words.
Kate Chisom Isiocha
Isiocha is an OND final year student of Temple Gate Polytechnic.